ga ga over bad guys

Read on an article" why do girls love bad guys" yesterday nite in a magazine..

Nice guys always finish last??

sadly, i somehow agree to tis.
there's quite a bit truth in it.
Women always get attracted to guys that aren't good for them.
pop star like Rihanna ga-ga over chris brown..
even Chris Brown abused her..
no matter how bad he is..
he is still the one she wants..

there are also cases like Kate Moss, Sarah Jessica Parker...etc..

why do gals ga-ga over bad guys?
perhaps: more excitement and add-on thrill of their life.

bad guys generally know what he wants and goes after it without hestitation. He will make you feel special and fulfilling your needs.
being with a bad guys not only give you an ego boost, but it also make you feel safe around them..

quoted from a book i read since July (hehe...only finished up in this month)
" Men are from Mars , Women are from Venus" by John Gray

"Fulfilling a primary need is required before one is able to fully receive and appreciate the others kinds of love"

WOMen need to receive : caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation and reassurance
while Men need to receive: trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval and encouragement.

If they do not receive their needs, gradually,
negative feelings are suppressed ,positive feeling are suppressed as well and love dies.

Relationship isnt an easy task to accomplished
thereby, by fulfilling each other needs are the mean of it.
rock and roll every couples out there...